I know there's a link of like resources for friends and family rn but I can't find it and is also maybe like more.. Idk posts or articles to send her? Or something to tell her?
My bpd and anger issues have been getting so bad lately and I've been splitting on her a LOT and she has psychosis so it's like she has her own problems too and they're usually more severe than mine so we don't talk about my problems a lot anyway. Well we have been now bc I've been getting so bad like. The littlest thing I'll just snap and I turn into a huge bitch and I can't control it and I'm just a passive aggressive angry bitch all the time. And it hurts her like I'm so mean to her but idk what to do!
We got into a huge huge fight yesterday, it even turned physical, we're both fine now but I need to stop this but we both know I can't do it without professional help. For reasons I can't get it right at this second, but I will be able too eventually
I guess until then I was wondering if anyone has any extra links for me? I want to link her to info about bpd and what her being my fp entails kinda thing. Sorry if this doesn't make any sense
Post by Kit Fancyphobic on Jan 12, 2016 17:54:53 GMT
If it's possible maybe try and talk it out? Wait until you and her are both calmish and remove yourself from triggering situations? Also maybe have a moderator there who knows about both of your stuff? I baisically had to talk through my biggest split with my FP and he was uber understanding and we're overall on good terms again. After that split, we also went on shitborderlinesdo and talked about symptoms and how they manifest for me personally. Makes it a lot easier to talk to him about it if he knows what I mean when I say certain things